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Amputee Essentials: The Amputee Store
When I started having skin breakdown on my legs a few years ago I had no idea what to do. I'd finally started wearing my legs enough to sorely miss them when I couldn't wear them. But as an amputee and sepsis survivor I knew that I am particularly susceptible to complications, some of them extremely serious, if I don't take care of my residual limbs. In desperation I just started googling, and the Internet delivered! I found The Amputee Store : a one-stop shop for absolutel
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5 days ago1 min read


Navigating Double Grief: Embracing Life with a Disability and Lost Dreams
My family says I'm a know it all. Unflattering yes, but an accurate statement. My natural tendency to point out other's flawed information blossomed when I became a grammar nerd after taking copy editing as a sophomore in college. I simply relish knowing obscure rules most people don't know or care about. One such rule is the difference between the words continuous and continual. If something occurs continuously, if happens constantly without ceasing. If something occurs co
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Jan 53 min read


The Power of Thought Models
Every survivor must learn to think intentionally. If you don't, your emotions gain too much influence over your view of God and your circumstances. They'll push and pull you all day long while not actually taking you anywhere. To think intentionally, I learned how to use thought models (sometimes called the CTFAR model). C is for a circumstance you want to think about intentionally. thought modelsT is the thought you have (or want to have) about that circumstance. F is the
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Nov 17, 20252 min read


Transforming Your Mindset: How to Thrive Regardless of Your Circumstances
You may not think you have the strength to take on the challenge of the new life waiting for you. You may wonder why you can’t just limp along as best you can? Why should you have to try to reach for peace when peace is surely an impossibility for someone enduring what you are? The key to thriving lies not in changing your circumstances but in changing how you think and feel about them. This shift in mindset can unlock resilience, strength, God-given peace, and even growth in
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Nov 17, 20253 min read
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